I am your parent, you are my child,
I am your quiet place, you are my wild.
I am your calm-face, you are my giggle.
I am your wait, you are my wiggle.
I am your finish line, you are my race.
I am your praying hands, you are my saving grace.
I am your lullaby, you are my peekaboo.
I am your good night kisses, you are my "I Love You"
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-Maryann K. Cusimano
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Stories: It’s a way to a child’s heart!
My kids always complained that I am not a good story-teller, and in our household, it is the job of their father to take them to a dream land where anything is possible, where you “create” animals/ situations/ consequences/ events 😊.
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“Why don’t you ever tell us stories like Nani?” – this would be one constant complain my boys would have for me. On the onset- I would dismiss saying that either I am tired, or I am not good at it, or I want papa to do this at the least 🙄! but the fact that looking at their father bond with them over stories and having giggles & rolling with laughter was something I would never trade for the world… 💖
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This daily event of nagging and complaining led me thinking- why only dreamland? Why not tell my boys “THEIR” stories- share the childhood they might not remember clearly when life ‘happens’-? And this gave birth to my baby venture “Bumchikens!” (The name also has a very funny and fond memory attached to it and someday, I would share that as well with the world😊).
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Not just memories- but there is a common pattern of ‘understanding our parents quite late’ which I wanted to erase… Am sure you must have heard – “Jab khud Maa-Baap banoge na, tab samajh ayegi” (you’ll understand our situation when you’ll be parents too), and this venture is an honest effort to bridge that gap for my kids. I want to pen down my emotions and feelings, hoping that it would serve them in understanding their mother, once they grow up a little 💖.
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And while doing so, if it helps other parents and children in their life- what more could I ask for ?
So- sit back, make yourself some popcorn and travel into my little world which revolves around “K” and “R” 💖😎